8 Ways to Relate Well to Children

After working with children for a number of years in the speech pathology industry, I’ve been able to learn how to relate well to them.

Building rapport with children involves communicating effectively, understanding their needs and creating a positive connection.

Here are some tips that you might find helpful when interacting with the little ones:

With one of my students at Speakable Speech Pathology (Permission to post given by parents)

1. Show genuine interest: Take a sincere interest in what children have to say. Ask them questions, listen and respond with enthusiasm. Show that you value their opinions and thoughts.

2. Use age-appropriate language: Change your language and vocabulary to suit the child’s comprehension level and age. Avoid using complex terms when explaining things. Speak clearly and use simple words to ensure their understanding.

3. Active listening: Give children your full attention when speaking to them. Maintain eye contact, nod, and respond appropriately. This shows them that you are listening and that their words matter.

4. Respect their feelings: Children experience a wide range of emotions. Acknowledge their feelings, whether negative or positive, and validate them. Help them understand and express their emotions in healthy ways.

5. Be patient and understanding: Children may take time to express themselves or understand certain concepts. Be patient and give them time and space to process their thoughts. Offer your support when needed. Avoid rushing or dismissing their concerns.

6. Play and engage: Children learn through play and engaging activities. Join in their playtime, participate in their games, and encourage their creativity. This creates a sense of connection and makes them feel valued.

7. Use positive reinforcement: Praise and reward them for their efforts and achievements. Focus on their strengths and encourage their progress. Positive reinforcement boosts their self-confidence and motivates them to continue learning and growing.

8. Be a role model: Children often observe and imitate the behavior of adults around them. Demonstrate respect, kindness, empathy, and good manners. Model positive behavior and values to set a good example for them.

Ultimately, every child is unique and it’s important to adapt these tips to suit their individual needs and personalities. Building a strong relationship with children takes time and effort, but the rewards are invaluable.

Thank you for reading,


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