SUP Yoga: Finding Balance on the Water

The benefits of stand-up paddleboard yoga and what you should know before trying it

By Binh Doan | November 2026

Have you ever imagined practising yoga while floating gently on the water, surrounded by nature, with nothing but the sound of the waves and the rhythm of your breathing?

Welcome to the world of SUP yoga!

SUP stands for Stand-Up Paddleboarding, and SUP yoga combines traditional yoga poses with the unique experience of practising on a paddleboard.

As a yoga teacher, Iโ€™ve always appreciated how yoga challenges us to connect our body, mind and breath. SUP yoga brings another dimension to that experience: an unpredictable, moving surface that encourages us to slow down, pay attention and embrace the present moment.

And yes, thereโ€™s always the possibility of falling into the water!

But perhaps thatโ€™s part of the fun.

What Makes SUP Yoga Different?

In a traditional yoga class, we practise on a stable surface. Whether weโ€™re moving through a Sun Salutation, holding Warrior II or finding stillness in Childโ€™s Pose, the ground beneath us stays relatively predictable.

On a paddleboard, everything changes.

The board gently responds to the water, your breathing and even the smallest shifts in body weight.

Suddenly, a familiar pose requires a different level of concentration.

You may find yourself bending your knees more, engaging your abdominal muscles or moving more slowly than usual.

Itโ€™s not necessarily about performing more advanced poses. Itโ€™s about exploring familiar movements in a completely different environment.

6 Benefits of SUP Yoga

1. Improves Balance and Body Awareness

Balance is one of the most obvious challenges of SUP yoga.

Because the paddleboard moves with the water, your body constantly makes small adjustments to remain stable.

These adjustments encourage proprioception โ€” your bodyโ€™s ability to sense its position and movement in space.

Over time, practising balance-based activities may help improve coordination, stability and body awareness.

Even standing in Mountain Pose can become an interesting challenge when youโ€™re floating on water!

2. Engages Your Core Muscles

SUP yoga encourages your core muscles to work throughout the practice.

Your abdominal muscles, back muscles and the muscles around your hips help stabilise your body as the board moves beneath you.

Poses such as Cat-Cow, Tabletop and modified Plank can feel surprisingly different on a paddleboard.

Rather than forcing yourself into difficult positions, focus on controlled movement, steady breathing and gentle muscular engagement.

Remember, a strong core isnโ€™t just about having visible abdominal muscles. Itโ€™s about supporting your posture, movement and everyday activities.

3. Encourages Mindfulness and Mental Focus

One of my favourite aspects of yoga is the opportunity to become fully present.

SUP yoga makes that almost unavoidable.

When youโ€™re balancing on water, itโ€™s difficult to think about emails, deadlines or everything you need to do tomorrow.

Your attention naturally returns to your breathing, your body and the movement of the board.

The gentle sounds of water, fresh air and open surroundings can also create a calming atmosphere.

Although research specifically examining SUP yoga remains limited, mindfulness-based movement and spending time in natural environments may support relaxation and psychological wellbeing.

Sometimes the greatest benefit of exercise isnโ€™t how much we sweat, but how we feel afterwards.

4. Builds Strength and Flexibility

SUP yoga offers an interesting combination of strength, stability and flexibility.

Holding yoga poses on an unstable surface may increase the demand on some stabilising muscles, while gentle stretches can help maintain or improve mobility.

However, more challenging doesnโ€™t always mean better.

The key is to move within your comfortable range of motion without compromising your alignment or safety.

For beginners, simple seated stretches and kneeling poses can be just as rewarding as standing postures.

5. Helps You Reconnect with Nature

Many of us spend a large portion of our day indoors, sitting in front of computers or looking at our phones.

SUP yoga offers an opportunity to step away from those routines.

Imagine practising yoga on a calm morning, feeling the warmth of the sun, noticing the breeze and watching the water move around you.

Being outdoors can encourage us to slow down and appreciate our surroundings.

For me, yoga isnโ€™t just physical exercise. Itโ€™s also about developing a deeper connection with ourselves and the environment around us.

Practising on water can be a beautiful reminder of that connection.

6. Teaches Patience, Adaptability and Letting Go

Hereโ€™s something SUP yoga teaches very quickly: you canโ€™t control everything.

You might feel perfectly balanced one moment and find yourself wobbling the next.

And thatโ€™s okay.

In fact, learning to respond calmly when things donโ€™t go according to plan is one of the most valuable lessons we can take from yoga.

Instead of becoming frustrated, we learn to adjust, breathe and try again.

Sometimes we fall into the water.

Sometimes we laugh.

And sometimes we discover that losing our balance is simply another opportunity to begin again.

That lesson extends well beyond the paddleboard.

Is SUP Yoga Suitable for Beginners?

Absolutely, provided you choose an appropriate beginner class and feel comfortable and safe in the water.

You donโ€™t need to be an experienced yogi or an expert paddleboarder to try SUP yoga.

However, basic water safety knowledge, an appropriate flotation device and the ability to manage an unexpected fall are important.

A beginner-friendly session will usually start with familiarising yourself with the board and learning how to position your body safely.

You may begin by sitting or kneeling before progressing to standing poses.

Some beginner-friendly postures include:

  • Easy Seated Pose (Sukhasana): A comfortable position to practise breathing and settle onto the board.
  • Cat-Cow Pose: Gentle spinal movement while maintaining a stable position on your hands and knees.
  • Childโ€™s Pose (Balasana): A relaxing posture that keeps your centre of gravity low.
  • Tabletop Pose: A useful starting position for developing stability.
  • Seated Forward Fold: A gentle stretch that can be adapted to your flexibility and comfort.
  • Mountain Pose (Tadasana): A standing balance challenge once youโ€™re ready.

You donโ€™t need to attempt headstands, handstands or complicated balancing poses.

The goal is to enjoy the experience rather than impress anyone.

What Should You Know Before Trying SUP Yoga?

Choose Calm, Sheltered Water

For your first experience, choose a calm and sheltered location rather than open ocean or an area with strong currents.

Wind, tides, waves and passing boats can all affect the movement of your paddleboard.

Check the weather forecast and water conditions before heading out. If conditions are unsuitable, postpone your session.

Use the Right Equipment

A wider, stable paddleboard is generally more suitable for yoga than a narrow board designed primarily for speed.

A non-slip deck pad provides additional grip and comfort.

Wear a correctly fitted lifejacket or personal flotation device appropriate for your activity and local requirements. In NSW, wearing a lifejacket while using a stand-up paddleboard is strongly recommended.

A suitable board leash may also help prevent the board from drifting away, but leash choice depends on conditions. An ankle leash can be dangerous in flowing water or around obstacles where it may become trapped.

Always follow local water safety guidance.

Dress Comfortably

Wear lightweight, quick-drying clothing that allows you to move freely.

Swimwear, activewear or a comfortable combination of both can work well.

Apply water-resistant sunscreen, and consider a hat and UV-protective clothing.

Most importantly, wear something you donโ€™t mind getting wet!

Start Slowly

SUP yoga isnโ€™t a competition.

Begin with basic movements, keep your centre of gravity low and avoid rushing between poses.

Moving slowly gives your body time to adapt to the changing surface.

Thereโ€™s no need to force a pose simply because you can perform it easily on land.

Be Prepared to Fall

Falling into the water is a possibility, even for experienced practitioners.

Before starting, learn how to fall away from the board safely and how to climb back on.

Avoid practising near rocks, shallow obstacles, swimmers or other watercraft.

If youโ€™re new to SUP yoga, joining a class with a qualified instructor who understands both yoga and paddleboard safety is a sensible choice.

SUP Yoga Isnโ€™t About Perfect Poses

Social media often presents yoga as a series of beautiful, perfectly balanced poses.

But yoga is much more than that.

It is about awareness, breathing, acceptance and developing a healthier relationship with ourselves.

SUP yoga reminds us that balance isnโ€™t always a fixed position.

Sometimes balance means making constant adjustments.

Sometimes it means accepting that things are moving beneath us.

And sometimes it means letting go of the expectation that everything needs to be perfect.

Perhaps thatโ€™s why practising yoga on water can feel so refreshing.

We learn to become comfortable with movement, uncertainty and change.

Final Thoughts: Finding Your Balance

Whether youโ€™re an experienced yoga practitioner looking for a new challenge or a beginner wanting to try something different, SUP yoga can offer a refreshing way to explore movement and mindfulness.

It encourages balance, core engagement, body awareness and connection with nature, while reminding us to approach challenges with patience and a sense of humour.

You may not master every pose.

You may wobble.

You may even fall in.

But you might also discover a wonderful sense of freedom, calmness and joy.

And perhaps thatโ€™s the beauty of SUP yoga.

Balance isnโ€™t about never falling. Itโ€™s about learning how to adjust, recover and enjoy the journey.

See you on the water ๐Ÿ„โ€โ™‚๏ธ ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ

Binh Doan is a Sydney-based speech pathologist, yoga teacher and performing artist who is passionate about movement, communication, creativity and wellbeing.

BRAVE: Finding the Courage to Use Your Voice

Iโ€™ve spent much of my professional life helping people communicate.

As a speech pathologist, I work with people to develop the skills and confidence to express themselves. As a yoga teacher, Iโ€™ve seen how breathing and awareness can change the way we feel in our bodies. Through acting, Iโ€™ve learnt about presence, connection and allowing yourself to be seen. And through Toastmasters, Iโ€™ve experienced how powerful it can be to stand in front of a room and simply speak.

BRAVE brings these different parts of my life together.

BRAVE stands for:

Breathe โ€ข Relax โ€ข Align โ€ข Voice โ€ข Engage

I created BRAVE as my Distinguished Toastmaster (DTM) project, but for me, it is much more than completing a Toastmasters project.

I wanted to create something practical that could help people feel calmer, more present and more confident when speaking in front of others.

Why BRAVE?

Public speaking is often taught as a collection of techniques: where to stand, what to do with your hands, how to structure a speech, how loudly to speak and how to make eye contact.

All of those things matter. But I believe something comes before them.

How do you actually feel when you stand up to speak?

Are you holding your breath? Are your shoulders tense? Are you rushing because you want the moment to be over? Are you so focused on what everyone else might be thinking that you lose connection with what you actually want to say?

This is where BRAVE begins.

Rather than starting with performance, we start with the breath and the body.

Breathe โ€” becoming aware of the breath and creating space.

Relax โ€” recognising and releasing unnecessary tension.

Align โ€” finding a grounded and confident physical presence.

Voice โ€” exploring how we can use our voices with greater freedom, clarity and expression.

Engage โ€” bringing everything together to genuinely connect with an audience.

You Donโ€™t Have to Become Fearless

I donโ€™t think confidence means never feeling nervous.

I have performed on stage, delivered speeches, taught workshops and spoken in front of many different audiences. There can still be nerves.

The difference is learning what to do with them.

Sometimes courage isnโ€™t about getting rid of fear. It is about breathing, grounding yourself and speaking anyway.

That is why I called this project BRAVE.

It isnโ€™t about becoming the loudest person in the room. And it isnโ€™t about pretending to be confident.

It is about becoming more comfortable with your own presence and allowing your voice to be heard.

Bringing My Worlds Together

One of the things I love most about BRAVE is that it draws on several areas that have shaped who I am and how I work.

Speech pathology taught me about communication, speech and voice.

Yoga taught me to pay attention to breath, body and awareness.

Acting taught me about presence, expression, spontaneity and connection.

And Toastmasters gave me a place to practise speaking, take risks, receive feedback and continue growing.

BRAVE is an opportunity for me to bring those worlds together and share some of what I have learnt with others.

And I expect that, like most worthwhile projects, I will learn just as much from the people who participate.

Join the BRAVE Project

BRAVE โ€“ Breathwork for Speakers โ€“ will run as four practical sessions at City of Sydney Toastmasters:

Monday 12 October 2026
Monday 26 October 2026
Monday 9 November 2026
Monday 23 November 2026

Time: 9:00โ€“9:30 pm, straight after each club meeting (Club meetings are 6:30-9 pm)

Venue: City of Sydney Toastmasters Club, Level 2, 262 Pitt Street (Pilgrim House), Sydney

Across the program, we will explore breathing, relaxation, alignment, voice and engagement through practical exercises that can be used for speeches, presentations and everyday communication.

Participants will also receive a participant workbook, guided practice recordings, weekly practice challenges and a certificate of completion.

The program is free for City of Sydney Toastmasters members.

For guests, the program is $40, and the fee can be credited towards joining the club.

To keep the experience personal, practical and interactive, BRAVE is limited to just 10 participants.

Ready to be BRAVE?

Register here:
๐Ÿ‘‰ https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1ioTnZYp3s10kONmPnohn06rdUZo16VCYcqkrwfVKOE0/viewform?edit_requested=true

I created BRAVE because I believe speaking with confidence doesnโ€™t begin when you open your mouth.

It begins with becoming present.

With your breath.
With your body.
With trusting yourself enough to be seen and heard.

Sometimes all it takes is a breath, a little practice and the courage to begin.

Register here:

https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1ioTnZYp3s10kONmPnohn06rdUZo16VCYcqkrwfVKOE0/viewform?edit_requested=true

Breathe. Relax. Align. Voice. Engage.

Be BRAVE.

See you there!

Binh Doan
DTM Project โ€“ City of Sydney Toastmasters

What My Dad Gave Me Before I Left Home at 15

A Fatherโ€™s Day reflection

My dad, Phรช, passed away many years ago following an illness. Fatherโ€™s Day gives me a moment to remember him and reflect on how much of his influence is still present in my life. The older I get, the more I understand what he gave me.

Dad was born in Vietnam during the war and grew up poor. He didnโ€™t finish school. He was an artist and an entrepreneur who built Thแบกnh Phรกt, our familyโ€™s sฦกn mร i (Vietnamese lacquerware) business. His creativity and hard work supported our family.

Our family business even welcomed buyers from Christian Dior, who came to purchase our pieces. When I think about that now, I feel proud of what he achieved and how far his work reached.

Through years of hard work, Dad managed to send all his children to school and give us opportunities to study in Australia. I appreciate more deeply now the effort behind the opportunities we were given.

As a child, I used to help him design some of our lacquerware pieces. Those memories mean a great deal to me. I was included in his work and had the chance to contribute my own ideas to something we were creating.

Looking back, I can see how much I was learning through that experience. Sharing a design meant finding a way to express an idea, listening to someone elseโ€™s perspective and working together. Being able to contribute helped me develop confidence in what I had to offer.

Growing up around Dad and the business also taught me about people: how to communicate, show respect, build relationships and adapt to different situations. These were skills I was developing through everyday life, long before I understood how important they would become.

When I left Vietnam for Australia at 15, I took those lessons with me.

Moving overseas meant adjusting to a different culture, a new school and much more responsibility for myself. There was plenty I still had to learn. By then, though, I had a strong foundation of social skills that helped me approach people, make friends, ask for help and find my place in unfamiliar surroundings.

That foundation helped me become independent and thrive. Dadโ€™s hard work made the move possible, and the lessons I had learnt growing up helped me make the most of it.

Today, as a speech pathologist, I have another reason to appreciate those early experiences. Expressing ourselves, listening to others and building connections are part of so much of what we do. I think about how much confidence a child can gain when their ideas are heard and they have a chance to contribute. Helping Dad with designs gave me that opportunity.

I also recognise his influence in my own love of creativity and in running a business. I have a greater appreciation now of the effort involved in creating something, taking responsibility for it and continuing through challenges. Dad did all of that while working to give his children a better future.

I wish I could tell him how much those childhood experiences still mean to me. His influence is there when I create something, connect with someone new or encourage a child to share an idea.

Thank you, Dad, for the opportunities you worked so hard to give us, and for helping me believe I could find my own way in the world.

โค๏ธ

Bรฌnh

Vietnamese sฦกn mร i – Mum & Dadโ€™s business

Tuแป•i 15 โ€“ Khi Tรดi Hแปc Cรกch Lแป›n Lรชn Mแป™t Mรฌnh

Bร i viแบฟt bแบฑng tiแบฟng Viแป‡t (English version below)

Cรณ nhแปฏng ngฦฐแปi lแป›n lรชn trong vรฒng tay cแปงa gia ฤ‘รฌnh.

Cรฒn tรดi, tรดi lแป›n lรชn cรนng nhแปฏng quyแบฟt ฤ‘แป‹nh cแปงa chรญnh mรฌnh.

Nฤƒm 15 tuแป•i, tรดi rแปi Viแป‡t Nam ฤ‘แปƒ sang รšc. แปž cรกi tuแป•i mร  nhiแปu bแบกn cรฒn ฤ‘ฦฐแปฃc ba mแบน chฤƒm sรณc tแปซng bแปฏa ฤƒn, nhแบฏc nhแปŸ chuyแป‡n hแปc hร nh vร  che chแปŸ trฦฐแป›c nhแปฏng khรณ khฤƒn, tรดi bแบฏt ฤ‘แบงu hแปc cรกch tแปฑ ฤ‘แปฉng trรชn ฤ‘รดi chรขn cแปงa mรฌnh แปŸ mแป™t ฤ‘แบฅt nฦฐแป›c hoร n toร n xa lแบก.

Nhรฌn lแบกi chแบทng ฤ‘ฦฐแปng แบฅy, tรดi nhแบญn ra rแบฑng nhแปฏng thแปญ thรกch mรฌnh trแบฃi qua ฤ‘รฃ trแปŸ thร nh nhแปฏng ngฦฐแปi thแบงy tuyแป‡t vแปi nhแบฅt.

1. Khรดng ai nแปฃ mรฌnh ฤ‘iแปu gรฌ

Cuแป™c sแป‘ng khรดng hแปฉa hแบนn sแบฝ cรดng bแบฑng.

Khรดng ai cรณ trรกch nhiแป‡m phแบฃi giรบp mรฌnh thร nh cรดng.

Khi chแบฅp nhแบญn ฤ‘iแปu ฤ‘รณ, tรดi thรดi ฤ‘แป• lแป—i cho hoร n cแบฃnh vร  bแบฏt ฤ‘แบงu chแป‹u trรกch nhiแป‡m hoร n toร n cho cuแป™c ฤ‘แปi mรฌnh.

ฤรณ lร  lรบc tรดi thแปฑc sแปฑ trฦฐแปŸng thร nh.

2. Tแปฑ do luรดn ฤ‘i kรจm vแป›i trรกch nhiแป‡m

Sแป‘ng mแป™t mรฌnh ฤ‘แป“ng nghฤฉa vแป›i viแป‡c mแปi quyแบฟt ฤ‘แป‹nh ฤ‘แปu lร  cแปงa mรฌnh.

Nแบฟu thร nh cรดng, mรฌnh biแบฟt ฦกn nhแปฏng nแป— lแปฑc ฤ‘รฃ bแป ra.

Nแบฟu thแบฅt bแบกi, mรฌnh cลฉng hแปc cรกch chแป‹u trรกch nhiแป‡m thay vรฌ tรฌm ngฦฐแปi ฤ‘แปƒ trรกch.

ฤรณ lร  cรกi giรก cแปงa sแปฑ tแปฑ do.

3. Kแปท luแบญt quan trแปng hฦกn ฤ‘แป™ng lแปฑc

Cรณ rแบฅt nhiแปu ngร y tรดi khรดng muแป‘n hแปc.

Khรดng muแป‘n lร m viแป‡c.

Khรดng muแป‘n cแป‘ gแบฏng thรชm nแปฏa.

Nhฦฐng tรดi vแบซn tiแบฟp tแปฅc.

ฤแป™ng lแปฑc sแบฝ ฤ‘แบฟn rแป“i ฤ‘i.

Kแปท luแบญt mแป›i lร  ฤ‘iแปu giรบp chรบng ta tiแบฟn xa.

4. Thแบฅt bแบกi chแป‰ lร  mแป™t bร i hแปc

Tรดi tแปซng bแป‹ tแปซ chแป‘i.

Tแปซng cแบฃm thแบฅy mรฌnh chฦฐa ฤ‘แปง giแปi.

Tแปซng nghi ngแป chรญnh bแบฃn thรขn.

Nhฦฐng mแป—i lแบงn vแบฅp ngรฃ ฤ‘แปu giรบp tรดi mแบกnh mแบฝ vร  khiรชm tแป‘n hฦกn.

5. ฤแปซng chแป‰ xรขy dแปฑng sแปฑ nghiแป‡p, hรฃy xรขy dแปฑng chรญnh mรฌnh

Cรดng viแป‡c rแบฅt quan trแปng.

Nhฦฐng con ngฦฐแปi mรฌnh trแปŸ thร nh cรฒn quan trแปng hฦกn.

Tรดi hแปc yoga.

Tรดi hแปc diแป…n xuแบฅt.

Tรดi tham gia Toastmasters.

Tรดi ฤ‘แปc sรกch.

Tรดi gแบทp gแปก nhแปฏng con ngฦฐแปi truyแปn cแบฃm hแปฉng.

Mแป—i trแบฃi nghiแป‡m ฤ‘แปu giรบp tรดi hiแปƒu bแบฃn thรขn hฦกn.

6. So sรกnh lร  kแบป ฤ‘รกnh cแบฏp niแปm vui

Ai cลฉng cรณ mแป™t hร nh trรฌnh riรชng.

Tรดi khรดng cรฒn cแป‘ gแบฏng sแป‘ng cuแป™c ฤ‘แปi cแปงa ngฦฐแปi khรกc.

Tรดi chแป‰ cแป‘ gแบฏng trแปŸ thร nh phiรชn bแบฃn tแป‘t hฦกn cแปงa chรญnh mรฌnh mแป—i ngร y.

7. Gia ฤ‘รฌnh khรดng chแป‰ lร  nฦกi mรฌnh sinh ra

Sแป‘ng xa quรช dแบกy tรดi rแบฑng gia ฤ‘รฌnh cรฒn lร  nhแปฏng ngฦฐแปi luรดn แปŸ bรชn mรฌnh bแบฑng tรฌnh yรชu vร  sแปฑ chรขn thร nh.

ฤรดi khi, nhแปฏng ngฦฐแปi แบฅy khรดng cรนng huyแบฟt thแป‘ng.

Nhฦฐng hแป luรดn xuแบฅt hiแป‡n ฤ‘รบng lรบc cuแป™c sแป‘ng cแบงn nhแบฅt.

8. Khรดng bao giแป lร  quรก muแป™n ฤ‘แปƒ bแบฏt ฤ‘แบงu

Tรดi ฤ‘รฃ thay ฤ‘แป•i nghแป nghiแป‡p.

Hแปc thรชm nhiแปu kแปน nฤƒng mแป›i.

Theo ฤ‘uแป•i nhแปฏng ฤ‘am mรช mแป›i.

Mแป—i lแบงn bแบฏt ฤ‘แบงu lแบกi khรดng phแบฃi lร  quay vแป sแป‘ khรดng.

Mร  lร  bฦฐแป›c tiแบฟp vแป›i nhiแปu kinh nghiแป‡m hฦกn.

9. Thร nh cรดng lร  ฤ‘ฦฐแปฃc sแป‘ng ฤ‘รบng vแป›i giรก trแป‹ cแปงa mรฌnh

Ngร y trฦฐแป›c tรดi nghฤฉ thร nh cรดng lร  kiแบฟm thแบญt nhiแปu tiแปn.

Bรขy giแป tรดi nghฤฉ thร nh cรดng lร  mแป—i sรกng thแปฉc dแบญy vแป›i mแป™t cuแป™c sแป‘ng cรณ รฝ nghฤฉa.

ฤฦฐแปฃc giรบp ฤ‘แปก ngฦฐแปi khรกc.

ฤฦฐแปฃc hแปc hแปi.

ฤฦฐแปฃc phรกt triแปƒn.

ฤฦฐแปฃc lร  chรญnh mรฌnh.

Lแปi kแบฟt

Nแบฟu cรณ thแปƒ nรณi vแป›i cแบญu bรฉ 15 tuแป•i nฤƒm แบฅy mแป™t ฤ‘iแปu, tรดi sแบฝ nรณi:

โ€œฤแปซng sแปฃ. Con ฤ‘ฦฐแปng phรญa trฦฐแป›c sแบฝ khรดng dแป… dร ng. Nhฦฐng chรญnh nhแปฏng ngร y thรกng khรณ khฤƒn sแบฝ tแบกo nรชn phiรชn bแบฃn mแบกnh mแบฝ nhแบฅt cแปงa em.โ€

Hรดm nay, tรดi biแบฟt ฦกn tแบฅt cแบฃ nhแปฏng gรฌ mรฌnh ฤ‘รฃ trแบฃi qua.

BแปŸi vรฌ nแบฟu khรดng cรณ cแบญu bรฉ 15 tuแป•i dลฉng cแบฃm nฤƒm แบฅy, sแบฝ khรดng cรณ tรดi cแปงa ngร y hรดm nay.

Cแบฃm ฦกn bแบกn ฤ‘รฃ dร nh thแปi gian ฤ‘แปc cรขu chuyแป‡n cแปงa tรดi.

Chรบc bแบกn luรดn ฤ‘แปง can ฤ‘แบฃm ฤ‘แปƒ bฦฐแป›c tiแบฟp trรชn hร nh trรฌnh cแปงa riรชng mรฌnh.

Binh


Age 15 โ€“ Learning to Grow Up on My Own

English Version

Some people grow up surrounded by the comfort of family.

I grew up through my own decisions.

At the age of fifteen, I left Vietnam and moved to Australia. While many teenagers still relied on their parents for guidance and support, I was learning how to build a life on my own in a country that felt completely unfamiliar.

Looking back, I realise that lifeโ€™s greatest lessons never came from a classroom.

They came from experience.

1. Nobody owes you anything

Life isnโ€™t always fair.

No one is responsible for making you successful.

The moment I accepted that, I stopped blaming circumstances and started taking ownership of my life.

That was the beginning of true adulthood.

2. Freedom always comes with responsibility

Living independently means every decision is yours.

When you succeed, you appreciate your hard work.

When you fail, you learn instead of looking for someone else to blame.

That is the priceโ€”and the privilegeโ€”of freedom.

3. Discipline will always outlast motivation

There were many days I didnโ€™t feel like studying.

Many days I didnโ€™t feel like working.

Many days I wanted to quit.

But I kept going.

Motivation comes and goes.

Discipline is what carries you through.

4. Failure is simply another lesson

Iโ€™ve been rejected.

Iโ€™ve doubted myself.

Iโ€™ve wondered if I was good enough.

Every setback made me stronger, wiser and more humble.

5. Donโ€™t just build a careerโ€”build yourself

A successful career is important.

But the person you become matters even more.

I learned yoga.

I studied acting.

I joined Toastmasters.

I read constantly.

I sought out inspiring people.

Every experience shaped who I am today.

6. Comparison steals happiness

Everyone is on a different journey.

I stopped comparing myself to others.

Instead, I focus on becoming a little better than I was yesterday.

7. Family is more than where you come from

Living far from home taught me that family is also the people who genuinely care about you.

They may not share your blood.

But they stand beside you when you need them most.

8. Itโ€™s never too late to begin again

Iโ€™ve changed careers.

Learned new skills.

Pursued new passions.

Starting over isnโ€™t going back to zero.

Itโ€™s beginning again with more wisdom than before.

9. Success is living according to your values

I used to think success meant earning a lot of money.

Today, success means waking up each morning knowing that my life has purpose.

Helping others.

Continuing to learn.

Growing as a person.

Living authentically.

Final Thoughts

If I could speak to my fifteen-year-old self, I would simply say:

โ€œDonโ€™t be afraid. The road ahead wonโ€™t be easy, but every challenge will shape you into someone youโ€™ll one day be proud of becoming.โ€

Today, I am grateful for every struggle, every mistake, and every difficult decision.

Because without that brave fifteen-year-old who stepped onto a plane and left Vietnam, I would not be the person I am today.

Thank you for taking the time to read my story.

I wish you the courage to keep moving forward on your own journey.

Binh

What Chess Has Taught Me About Life

Iโ€™ve loved chess for as long as I can remember.

Iโ€™m not a grandmaster, and I donโ€™t play tournaments every weekend. I simply enjoy the game. Whenever life gets busy, I find myself coming back to the chessboard. It slows me down and reminds me to think.

Over the years, Iโ€™ve realised that many of the lessons Iโ€™ve learned from chess have quietly shaped the way I live.

The biggest one is this: you canโ€™t control everything.

You can study openings, have a plan, and feel confident about your position. Then your opponent makes a move you never expected. Suddenly, you have to adapt.

Life has been like that for me.

When I moved to Australia as a teenager, I didnโ€™t know where life would take me. I certainly didnโ€™t imagine Iโ€™d become a speech pathologist, start my own business, write a book, teach yoga or begin acting in my later years.

None of those things were part of some master plan. They were simply the next move.

One thing chess has also taught me is not to rush.

When I play too quickly, I usually regret it. The moves that look exciting at first often turn out to be the wrong ones. The same has happened in life. Some of my best decisions came after taking time to reflect instead of reacting.

Iโ€™ve also learned that losing isnโ€™t something to fear.

Iโ€™ve lost plenty of games. Sometimes I knew exactly where I went wrong. Other times I didnโ€™t see my mistake until much later. Instead of getting frustrated, Iโ€™ve started asking myself, โ€œWhat can this game teach me?โ€

Iโ€™ve tried to carry that mindset into everyday life. Not every audition has gone my way. Not every business decision has been perfect. Some ideas have worked beautifully, while others havenโ€™t. Looking back, Iโ€™ve probably learned more from the disappointments than the successes.

Another thing I love about chess is that every piece matters.

Most people notice the queen because sheโ€™s the strongest piece. But Iโ€™ve won games because of a single pawn that quietly made its way across the board. That reminds me not to underestimate the small things.

For instance: reading a few pages each day, practicing yoga even when I donโ€™t feel like it or calling a friend.

Those small habits rarely feel significant in the moment, but over time they change who we become.

Perhaps my favourite lesson is that the game isnโ€™t over until itโ€™s over.

Iโ€™ve seen players come back from positions that looked impossible. As long as they kept thinking, there was always another move to make.

I think thatโ€™s a comforting thought.

No matter where we are in life, we always have a next move. We canโ€™t change the moves weโ€™ve already made, but we can choose the next one.

Maybe thatโ€™s why I keep coming back to chess. It reminds me to slow down, stay curious, accept mistakes, and trust that one thoughtful move is often enough.

Life doesnโ€™t require a perfect strategy. It simply asks us to keep playing.

Iโ€™d love to hear your thoughts. Has chess or another hobby taught you something unexpected about life?

Until next time,

Binh

โ™Ÿ๏ธ

10 Lessons I Learnt Living Away From My Family at 15

At 15 years old, I left Vietnam and came to Australia to study.

I still remember the mix of excitement and fear. On one hand, I was grateful for the opportunity to build a better future. On the other, I was leaving behind everything I had ever known, my family, my friends, my language, and my culture.

When youโ€™re 15, most people are worrying about school exams, sports, or what theyโ€™re doing on the weekend. I was learning how to navigate a completely new country with limited English and without my family by my side.

Looking back now, I realise that the experience shaped who I am today. It taught me lessons about resilience, independence, and gratitude that no textbook could ever teach.

Here are ten of the most valuable lessons I learnt.

1. You Are Stronger Than You Think

When life becomes difficult, you often discover strengths you never knew you had.

There were many moments when I felt lost, homesick, and overwhelmed. Yet somehow, I kept moving forward. Each challenge I overcame built confidence and resilience.

We are often far more capable than we give ourselves credit for.

2. Growth Happens Outside Your Comfort Zone

Moving to Australia forced me out of my comfort zone every single day.

Everything was unfamiliar. The language sounded different. The culture was different. Even simple daily tasks required courage.

At the time it felt uncomfortable, but looking back, that discomfort became the catalyst for growth.

3. Family Is a Gift

You donโ€™t truly understand the value of family until they are no longer around every day.

Living away from my parents taught me to appreciate their sacrifices. It made me realise how much love and support they had provided throughout my childhood.

Distance created a deeper sense of gratitude.

4. Loneliness Can Teach You Valuable Things

There were times when I felt incredibly alone.

Instead of constantly trying to escape those feelings, I gradually learnt how to sit with them. Loneliness taught me self-reliance, reflection, and emotional resilience.

It also taught me the importance of building meaningful relationships.

5. Communication Is More Than Perfect English

When I arrived in Australia, my English was limited.

There were many times when I couldnโ€™t express myself the way I wanted. It was frustrating and sometimes embarrassing.

Over time, I realised that communication isnโ€™t just about grammar or vocabulary. Confidence, persistence, body language, and a willingness to make mistakes are equally important.

Every conversation became a lesson.

6. Nobody Is Coming to Rescue You

One of the most important lessons I learnt was personal responsibility.

If I wanted better grades, I had to study.

If I wanted opportunities, I had to seek them out.

If I made mistakes, I had to learn from them.

That mindset became one of the foundations of my success later in life.

7. Hard Work Beats Talent

I wasnโ€™t the smartest student in the room. I wasnโ€™t the most confident speaker. I wasnโ€™t naturally gifted at everything I tried.

But I learnt that consistent effort often matters more than natural ability.

Hard work opened doors that might otherwise have remained closed.

8. Failure Is Part of Success

There were plenty of setbacks along the way. I made mistakes. I misunderstood people. I struggled with language and confidence.

At the time, those moments felt like failures. Looking back, they were simply stepping stones.

Every setback taught me something valuable.

9. Your Story Is Your Strength

For a long time, I simply wanted to fit in.

As Iโ€™ve grown older, Iโ€™ve realised that my journey is not something to hide. Being Vietnamese, migrating to Australia, learning a new language, and overcoming challenges have all shaped who I am.

The experiences that once made me feel different are now some of my greatest strengths.

10. Keep Saying Yes to New Experiences

Moving to Australia at 15 taught me that growth often begins with a single brave decision.

Since then, Iโ€™ve continued saying yes to new experiences, whether thatโ€™s becoming a speech pathologist, starting a business, teaching yoga, performing on stage, competing at Toastmasters, or stepping into an improv class.

Life becomes richer when weโ€™re willing to embrace the unknown.

Final Thoughts

Today, as a speech pathologist, business owner, coach, actor, and lifelong learner, I often think about that 15-year-old boy who left Vietnam and boarded a plane to Australia.

He had no idea what the future would hold. What he did have was courage.

Looking back, I realise that courage isnโ€™t the absence of fear. Courage is taking the next step despite fear.

If youโ€™re facing uncertainty in your own life, remember this: you donโ€™t need to have everything figured out. You simply need to keep moving forward.

The challenges you face today may one day become the very stories that inspire others.

Keep growing, keep learning, and keep moving forward.


Binh

Building Confidence Through Discomfort

When I was 15, I moved to Australia from Vietnam.

I didnโ€™t speak much English. I remember sitting in class, catching maybe 30% of what was going onโ€ฆ just trying to piece things together.
I definitely didnโ€™t feel confident & felt behind.
And for a long time, I believed what most people believe: Confidence is something you either haveโ€ฆ or you donโ€™t.

The Myth of Confidence

We see confident people and think:
โ€œTheyโ€™re just like that.โ€
โ€œTheyโ€™ve always been good at speaking.โ€
โ€œTheyโ€™re naturally confident.โ€
But honestlyโ€ฆ thatโ€™s rarely true. Confidence isnโ€™t something youโ€™re born with. Itโ€™s something you build.
I didnโ€™t wake up one day and suddenly feel confident just because my English got better.
It came from doing things that felt uncomfortable over and over again. My first acting class in High School was very uncomfortable. Standing up, using my voice, showing emotionโ€ฆ I felt exposed.
Nothing about that felt โ€œnatural.โ€

What Actually Builds Confidence

Over time, I started noticing something. Confidence wasnโ€™t random. It followed a pattern.

Here are the 3 things that made the biggest difference for me:

1. Repetition

Confidence comes from doing the thingโ€ฆ again and again. Not once. Not twice. Enough times that your brain goes: โ€œOkayโ€ฆ Iโ€™ve been here before.โ€
Whether itโ€™s speaking, performing, or even just sharing your opinion, the first few times are always awkward. But after 10, 20, 50 times? You start to settle into it.

2. Getting Comfortable Being Uncomfortable

Most people avoid the exact thing that would make them more confident such as speaking up, being seen and putting themselves out there.
I kind of forced myself to lean into it: acting classes, auditions, and performing. I wasnโ€™t trying to be amazing but just trying to stay in itโ€ฆ a little longer each time. Thatโ€™s where the shift happens.

3. Building Actual Skill

Confidence without skill doesnโ€™t last. Real confidence comes from knowing: โ€œIโ€™ve put in the work.โ€ The more I trained in acting, communication and coaching, the more solid I felt. Not fake confidence. Not hype. Justโ€ฆ grounded confidence.

A Moment That Changed Everything

I recently performed in Bobbin Up. On closing night, something clicked. I wasnโ€™t rushing. I wasnโ€™t trying to โ€œact confident.โ€ I just slowed everything down.
In one of the main scenes โ€” the hotel scene โ€” I felt completely in control.
And the thing isโ€ฆ that didnโ€™t come from nowhere.
It came from all the rehearsals, all the line runs, all the small details I worked on. Thatโ€™s what confidence actually looks like. Not loud. Not forced. Justโ€ฆ there.

What You Can Do (Starting This Week)

If youโ€™re waiting to feel confident before you do somethingโ€ฆ you might be waiting forever.
Try this instead:

  1. Do one uncomfortable thing this week
    Say something. Speak up. Put yourself out there.
  2. Do it again next week, and the week after.
  3. Focus on one small thing, not โ€œbe confidentโ€ as thatโ€™s too vague. Try speaking a bit slower, finishing your sentence clearly, or holding eye contact a bit longer. Small things repeated and thatโ€™s how confidence builds.

Final Thought

Confidence isnโ€™t something you find. Itโ€™s something you build, one uncomfortable moment at a time.
If you keep stepping into those moments, youโ€™ll realise something:
You were never lacking confidence. You just hadnโ€™t trained it yet.

Keep training and confidence will come! ๐Ÿ’ช๐Ÿฝ

Binh

2026: The Year of the Fire Horse

I donโ€™t usually buy into labels for years, but every now and then, something lands and it makes me pause.

2026 is the Year of the Fire Horse – a rare cycle that only comes around every 60 years. Whether you believe in astrology or not, the symbolism feelsโ€ฆ accurate.

To me, this doesnโ€™t feel like a slow year. It doesnโ€™t feel like a year for overthinking.

It feels like a year for movement.

The Fire Horse is often described as freedom and strength. Freedom isnโ€™t about quitting everything or burning it all down.

Itโ€™s quieter than that.

Freedom is finally saying what you mean, stopping the constant self-editing and choosing what matters instead of what looks good.

Itโ€™s not dramatic. Itโ€™s honest.

A few years ago, I thought strength meant doing more, working harder, pushing through, and holding it all together.

Now I think strength looks like knowing when to slow down, letting things be unfinished and trusting that you donโ€™t need to prove anything.

This shift didnโ€™t happen overnight. It came from listening to my body, my work, my relationships, and the moments where something felt off even when it โ€œlooked rightโ€.

Fire Horse years are meant to be about rapid change, but not the chaotic kind.

Itโ€™s more like when something finally clicks, when a decision stops feeling heavy and when you move because youโ€™re ready, not because youโ€™re scared.

I donโ€™t feel the need to reinvent everything in 2026.

I feel the need to commit.

To fewer things.

To clearer values.

To showing up more fully where I already am.

If I had to carry one question into 2026, it would be this:

What would change if I trusted myself a little more?

Not overnight.

Not perfectly.

Just enough to take the next step without talking myself out of it.

Hereโ€™s to 2026 ๐Ÿ”ฅ

๐Ÿ”ฅ a year of movement without rushing

๐Ÿ”ฅ strength without forcing

๐Ÿ”ฅ and freedom that actually feels like home.

Have a fantastic year, everyone!

Binh

The Quiet Space Between Years

Thereโ€™s a strange, gentle pause that lives between Christmas and New Year.

The emails slow.

The noise softens.

Time feels less demanding.

Itโ€™s not quite the end, and not quite the beginning.

And I think we rush this space too often.

Weโ€™re quick to label the year as good or bad.

We want neat summaries, clean lessons, tidy growth.

But real life isnโ€™t bullet-pointed.

Some things this year were clear wins.

Some were quiet losses no one else noticed.

Some are still unfinished and that doesnโ€™t mean they failed.

Iโ€™ve learned that reflection doesnโ€™t always need answers.

Sometimes it just needs honesty.

Not What did I achieve?

But What did I carry?

What did I carry when things felt uncertain?

What did I carry when motivation dipped?

Growth isnโ€™t always loud.

Often it looks like staying.

Like pausing.

Like choosing not to quit on yourself.

As this year closes, Iโ€™m not rushing to redesign my life.

Iโ€™m simply acknowledging it.

The effort.

The stretch.

The stillness.

The becoming.

If youโ€™re reading this in that in-between space – tired, reflective, hopeful, unsure, then youโ€™re exactly where you need to be.

You donโ€™t need a new version of yourself by midnight.

You donโ€™t need a perfect plan.

Youโ€™re allowed to arrive in the new year as you are.

Quietly.

Honestly.

Intact.

Wishing you a steady and kind year ahead.

Bรฌnh

Krabi, Thailand

Why I Donโ€™t Do New Year Resolutions Anymore

Every January, weโ€™re encouraged to reset our lives.

New habits.

New goals.

A better version of ourselves.

For a long time, I played along. But over time, Iโ€™ve stepped away from New Year resolutions, not because growth doesnโ€™t matter, but because the way we frame change matters more than we realise.

Resolutions are built on pressure.

Most resolutions rely on discipline and willpower, as if these are unlimited resources. They rarely account for fatigue, emotional load, unexpected events, or the complexity of real life.

When a resolution falls apart, the story becomes personal: I didnโ€™t try hard enough.

Rarely do we question whether the plan itself was realistic.

A calendar date doesnโ€™t create readiness.

Change doesnโ€™t happen because the year changed.

Readiness comes from awareness, capacity, timing, and support. January can be reflective, quiet, or simply about regaining balance. Expecting transformation on demand ignores how change actually works.

The all-or-nothing trap!

Resolutions often create rigid rules.

Miss a day, and the momentum disappears. Miss a week, and the resolution feels broken. This pattern leads to guilt, then avoidance, rather than sustainable growth.

Real change is adaptive, not absolute.

What I choose instead:

Instead of resolutions, I choose direction.

Direction allows flexibility. It adjusts to hard weeks and changing circumstances.

Rather than asking โ€œWhat must I achieve?โ€ I ask: What do I want more of this year? What do I want less of? What needs protecting?

This creates movement without pressure.

Process over outcomes.

Outcomes are visible. Processes are transformative.

Rather than focusing on end results, I pay attention to:

How I structure my days. How I speak to myself. How I respond when plans change. How I return after pauses.

These shifts may look small, but theyโ€™re the ones that last.

A gentler alternative:

If resolutions donโ€™t sit right with you, try this instead:

This year, Iโ€™m committed to supporting myself by ______.

For instance:

This year, Iโ€™m committed to supporting myself byโ€ฆ

โ€ฆprotecting my energy as carefully as my time.

โ€ฆchoosing consistency over intensity.

โ€ฆallowing progress to be uneven without judging it.

No deadlines.

No streaks.

No failure.

Just intention and responsiveness.

Moving into the year differently.

You donโ€™t need to reinvent yourself in January.

You donโ€™t need a dramatic plan.

You need something that respects your capacity and allows growth at a human pace.

โ€œChange happens not when we push harder, but when we listen more closely.โ€

Have a fantastic year ahead! ๐Ÿ’ซ

Bรฌnh